I think that honesty and acceptance go hand in hand. While I am no longer a fan of the Bachelor enterprise, I was a fan once. I don't hate or actually dislike the show. I have just realized that the shows are staged.Most if not all of those shows are not real so to speak. If I had other thoughts about the Bachelor enterprise then why now. I refuse to reason things. Reasoning and reassurance are my enemies, not my friends. How to keep in mind is the real issue. So how do I really accept these thoughts? By just being honest.