How do I overcome my compulsions? I would like to quit cold turkey, but is it possible? I would like to overcome OCD, but as it seems, the OCD will never just go away soon. I don't like having these compulsions. They are mostly about wives cheating? They are about other wives cheating. I want to know why she cheats? Why and how she feel about her husband? I know infidelity is wrong, so does it make one a bad person? I feel that it doesn't say much about her. I am not about passing ungodly judgement on her, but it doesn't make here seem like a good person. My other question is why do I have thoughts about another woman committing adultery. I have "theories" about this. However, I realize it no longer matters why. Yet I wonder why I should care. I no longer have questions about a wife in particular cheating, even if she is innocent. Why oh why? There is nothing I can do to change the facts about infidelity. I feel like a nosy person who wants to know the business of others. It makes me less anxious. However, it doesn't make feel that great since I have wasted a lot of time to find the "answers" I so seek. What is important is that I break the cycle of OCD. I just hope that the impossible can be possible. That is my story about why and how I manage to cope with having OCD.